mortifying
1. [ adjective ] causing to feel shame or chagrin or vexation
Synonyms: embarrassing
Examples:

"the embarrassing moment when she found her petticoat down around her ankles" "it was mortifying to know he had heard every word"

Related terms: unpleasant
2. [ adjective ] causing awareness of your shortcomings
Synonyms: humiliating humbling demeaning
Examples:

"golf is a humbling game"

Related terms: undignified
Similar spelling:   mortify
  mortified